Here’s The True Secret To Making Other People Happy

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Are you a person who just wants peace in your life at all times?

Are you a person who wants other people to be happy with you?

Are you a person who hovers around at mealtime helping everyone else get their food before you get yours?

Are you a person who analyses every conversation back in your head at night that you had during the day?

Are you a person who hopes you didn’t say something wrong to so and so today?

Are you a person who wonders constantly if that look or what you just said to someone might of hurt their feelings?

Are you a person who automatically apologizes for something even when it wasn’t even you who did it?

Are you a person who thinks everyone deserves a trophy for showing up?

Are you a person who will take the blame for something you didn’t do just so someone else’s feelings don’t get hurt?

Are you a person that would rather you have a bad day then someone else you know has a bad day?

Are you a person who holds the door open for everyone going into a or coming out of the restaurant because you want to make sure everyone else is taken care of?

Are you a person who does other peoples work because you want the other people on your team to be less stressed and happy?

Are you a person who let’s other people put you down so they can be happy?


If you’ve answered “Yes” to any one of these things let me give you the secret right here and now on how to make all of these people happier…

STOP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!

DON’T DO IT ANYMORE!!

You’re not on this planet to make people HAPPY!!

If people aren’t happy with you because you don’t allow them to do the things mentioned above, tell them to go screw themselves.

You can’t make anyone else happy in this life.

No matter what you say or do you can never make anyone else happy.

Happiness is something that has to come from within. 

Period. 

End of story.

A lot of people don’t know this and/or they refuse to accept it.

But now that I’ve shared this secret with you, you can’t be in that group of people who don’t know anymore.

So, accept this fact.

Go forth and make yourself happy.

Because as we both know now you are the only one who really can.


6 comments:

  1. YESSSSSSS! Love it! I’m a TRUE work in progress!!!

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  2. I can only do my best .If i cant make them happy i dont know who can and for me its hard for me to be happy.

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    1. Then maybe that is something you need to focus on more in your life. Making yourself happy.

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